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For Lidia Mingrone - 2005

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women of this world

This month we cross the line of Lakshmana by a long passage and opening the door to a world that is often uncomfortable, avoided, but never as real as any reality in the world can claim to be.

I speak of the dark world of prostitution.

We often unhealthy habit of speaking of things without going into the depth of the arguments, especially dealing with issues so pressing, but the prospect of our meeting this month, wants to be just to not make mundane reality and testimonies that are to listen and do their own, because there is nothing so far we have not put in the position can understand something more, just be open to knowledge and express a little 'curiosity towards life.

Nothing is so close to us and our lives more than they want to see.

I want to begin by stressing the importance of the social role that these ladies investing, sometimes more effectively than is being proposed by our work in social services.

To give you a deeper and more real evidence of the situation we are dealing with, I met a writer, a friend first, a woman of admirable strength and courage.

Author of "The manuscript of Sonia," Diary of experience in the world of prostitution, prostitution Mariana Brasil has lived in the depths of its expression. From this manuscript

Paulo Coelho drew inspiration for his best seller "Eleven Minutes" by conveying to the world the experience of Mariana.

It is a woman of great human, who now lives a normal life with a wonderful son and a man who loves her.

I met in his house not far from us (as a small world ...) and talking with her I realized how much the reality that do not know fear, but if we come with a free spirit to the lives of others, we realize that basically we are all a bit 'like the fear and slowly fades away, because it is not justified by reasons that can support it in our logic, but as children who are afraid of the dark, we fear what we can not see, what the darkness holds, our anxieties, our deepest fears, our own desires, because often we are also afraid of want, fear of everything that we do not know.



"I feel an enormous need in humanity to be heard," says Mariana, "when people come there (will be a woman in charge), are to speak. Yes, even sex, perhaps to create sexual fantasies that can not live with his woman, out of shame for some reason or another taboo, but most want to be heard, for the time for which he paid. "

L . 'like a psychotherapist,

M. "yes, there are people who come with a bag so heavy with sadness that I almost feel pain and discomfort, loneliness is a characteristic common to all these men who share with us this space of time which will not talk to anyone, let alone with your partner.

Furthermore, the fact of paying for this time frees them from any obligation or bond and such men's okay, because it is much easier to do things that do not take risks. "

L." How does a woman which is or has done this job then fails within their intimate family to reconcile with his conscience and with the same family this duality, these two seemingly opposite worlds so ... "

M." It 's a constant struggle to find a balance within themselves, which is not very different from finding a balance for all other people who maybe do not like a job or have other problems. The search for all people is to strike a balance, my ... is not different because the people who are not willing or able to find even take drugs, drink, or find another way to not be aware of what they do. "

L." What are the rules of the world of prostitution and what difficulties he meets the woman who wants to change lives, if they really have the will to do it ... "

M. "For what it stems from my experience I can say that the fundamental rule is part of a single master .. God the money.

Sure, there are rules such as numbers, times, and so on, but it's only the money that law ... where there is money there is what you need.

E 'essential to develop and maintain the ability to make decisions, make choices, because life is made up of choices and we are responsible, and also to change its way of life, is the only woman who can trace your way ... certainly not as easy as saying, especially in certain circles that I, honestly, and thank goodness, I know of so thoroughly that it may speak. "

L." You have decided to publish your testimony so that he could be of help to other women, you discovery with the consequences that this entails, you know that in one way or another, these bold decisions have to pay ... how important is the truth ... "

M." The truth sets us free ... I'm free, I know that for many situations of my life I will pay the price for trying to be honest with myself and with whom I have close, but this is a choice ... "

L." And the choice to start ... how much space inside the soul you can keep for their dreams without losing hope of being able to achieve ... "

M." This is also a choice ... making certain choices of dreams die ... and I have many who do not never happen ... "

L." Let's talk about your relationship with Paulo Coelho, as respected the truth of your path in life ... "

M. "Unfortunately, not much. He wrote the story of Pretty Woman, creating a happy ending, even if "Eleven Minutes" is beautiful and thanks to this novel I could make myself known, but this was not my goal, I lived on my skin all that I wrote, not him, gave his own interpretation, for men, not respect fully the truth of my story.

I would like my manuscript to become a white flag ... "

L." ... about this, The first night we met you told me of a Brazilian girl who wrote to you because you helped her to become a prostitute ... "

M." yes, she was like me, had nothing ... so he asked me if I could do something for her, I said yes, I could do something, I could send you my book ... and I did.

Shortly after, Dec. 23 just two years ago, I wrote her and her mother, saying that angels do exist and that I was one of them, I had saved my life ... it was the best gift of Christmas that I could receive. "

L." The goal of your book is therefore to provide support, testimony direct help to those who can be found in a position to make a choice like yours ... "

M." I did think that everyone, even those who feed this world, those who are clients and prostitutes domani.Vorrei that was worth the price I paid for my past and sharing it with the world. "

L." A curiosity ... the kiss ... "

M." In recent years prompted more and more if you can kiss that ... "

L." The Kiss expresses a desire more intimate, connected to emotion rather than to sex ... so the human being is in crisis? "

M. "If this were more and more couples, also in crisis ... their awareness of human frailty makes it very sad ...

I once had an apartment with one room on a square where there was a flower kiosk, you know how many times the man who had just come out from me stopped by the florist to buy a bouquet of flowers to take home to his wife ... this made me want to cry ... every time ... "



It 'really so easy to free from the burden of guilt? Just move it to a bunch of flowers?

However, this profession as old as the world, says Mariana, "will not end never ... ", maybe something will change ... it is all a matter of choice ...

Many thanks Sonia, we raise the white flag and we sit down and reflect in an attempt to take a little 'more than good.



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